“Believe it or not, men are just as much a mystery to women as women are to men”. Here are some of the tips for a perfect love relationship.
There is always a question in every girls mind as to “What all men want”?
If you feel like you need a magic wand to interpret what a man wants, you’re not alone.
In fact, there came a situation in my life where I had a similar feeling and question but I came across a theory which I would share in today’s content.
Women are usually expressive when it comes to emotion while men can appear blissfully simple in this emotion game. This might be due to difficulty in communicating his feelings or fear of showing his true self.
Well! Over the course of time, I’ve figured out and got familiar to the most common characteristics that men look for in women and I promise you’ll never see your relationship through the same lens again.
Hope these few points highlighted below will be helpful to all of you as it was for me:
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Men always wants his girl to be happy
This is really a practical feeling. It doesn’t mean that he asks for it but he expects her to be happy as an output or an end result of his input of affection, love, and care.
The baseline here is that if you are not happy, the guy gets restless and tries to fix the thing for what you are happy about or starts avoiding so that you stay happy.
“Your happiness is the key to his happiness”.
Take interest in his interest
Men love when his girl is passionate about what he is passionate about. When you really dive into his likes, he will instinctively feel such unconditional love for you that he could kiss you a thousand times and still not be satisfied.
This means that you genuinely take interest and are ready to support and invest in his happiness. It can be anything from travelling places to leisure.
“When you connect to something he loves, the love he has for that thing directly connects to you”.
Praise, Acknowledge and appreciate you”.
A man is probably not going to ask for it for fear of his ego-stroke. Men need reassurance too and there’s nothing wrong with a little ego-stroking.
In fact, compliments help boost his confidence and when they’re coming from you, it will help him feel loved.
Appreciation is key to any relationship. It makes a person feel better about themselves, urging them to go on with a new mind, strengthening your relationship.
Appreciate your men for giving you a hug or going an extra way to make you feel happy.
Giving Space and encouraging him to Adventure
Traditionally, women tend to flock to each other for talking about problems and having fun while men like solitary time to do their own thing. This will always be a balancing act of closeness and separateness.
But rest assured, suffocating a man by failing to give him free time or jealous nature is the fastest way to end the relationship.
“Giving space and time is the best recipe for a Long term Relationship to work”.
Trust him completely and have Confidence
Show confidence in him rather than instructing him on what to do, how to do or managing the situation on your own.
It’s a weird contradiction but if your man feels like you don’t trust him, he’ll have a hard time trusting you.
“Showing faith in his abilities, is about showing faith on your man”.
Respect is must in a love relationship
Men often feel respect as love and if you disapprove of him, he’ll have a hard time trusting you with his emotions.
Accept him the way he is, along with the differences in male/female communication and he’ll be pleased to be with you or have you in his life.
Hey, women out there, who are reading this — Hope all these bullets help you to love him and understand him and trust him completely with what he has to give you in this life.
If you are men reading this, hope your needs are being met in this blog.
Also, please start speaking up to your woman about your wants and desires or expectations to the situation so that nothing hot pops — up in the relationship that has built in the end. Women are no telepathic who would read your mind even without you not disclose any of your worries. In short, Please communicate and share your feelings as these are the only mode of conversing to grow strong in a relationship.
So, You are together in for this relationship, so give each other space-time and moreover respect to get this love growing into another phase of life. You will definitely win in life by clearing your doubts in mind. Before going to sleep every night, forgive everyone and sleep with a clean heart.